Movies and TV shows often depict the classic “airplane romance” scene, but what about real life—how do flight attendants flirt? According to an anonymous flight attendant, passengers might pick up subtle cues: if a crew member calls someone “Bob” or says “Cheerio,” it could indicate romantic interest.
“Bob” isn’t the passenger’s name—it’s shorthand for “Babe On Board,” signaling that the crew finds the passenger attractive. Similarly, a warm “Cheerio” when leaving the plane could also be a flirtatious hint. The flight attendant revealed that attractive passengers often receive extra attention, sometimes even small gifts or a phone number discreetly passed on a napkin.
Flight attendants also use insider terminology for other situations. For instance, “Mermaid” describes row-dominating passengers, “Code 300” or “Angel” indicates a passenger has passed away, and “ABP” stands for “Able-Bodied Passenger,” someone who can assist in emergencies. Another term, “Gate Lice,” refers to passengers who crowd the boarding gate, blocking others from entering efficiently.
These playful codes give a glimpse into the behind-the-scenes life of airline crews—and how subtle signals can spark a little mid-air charm.

