Some male behaviours often leave women scratching their heads, from miming a basketball shot when passing a hoop, to subtly adjusting themselves while sitting, and even participating in risky pranks during school days. Urologist Dr. Shih Kuan-Wei recently broke down “Three Male Behaviours Women Don’t Understand,” explaining that while the first two are usually harmless reflexes or habits, the third—known as the “Aruba” prank—carries real danger and should be avoided.
Miming Basketball Shots: A Reflex, Not Attention-Seeking
Dr. Shih explains that many men instinctively mimic shooting hoops whenever they see a basketball hoop—or even a circular object that reminds them of one. This “air basketball” behaviour is an unconscious muscle memory, similar to pressing a button when you see one or stepping a certain way on stairs. It’s purely habitual, affects no one, and requires no judgment.
Adjusting Genitals: A Normal Physiological Reflex
The second behaviour involves men occasionally adjusting their private areas while seated. Dr. Shih clarifies that this is a normal response to discomfort caused by prolonged sitting, sweat, or friction from underwear. Just as women might adjust a bra strap for comfort, men instinctively reposition themselves to relieve heat, itchiness, or pinching. This is a natural physiological action, not an intentional display.
The ‘Aruba’ Prank: Dangerous and Not Recommended
The third behaviour, the so-called “Aruba,” was a common school prank where one student is lifted and bumped against a pole with their groin. While often considered harmless fun during adolescence, Dr. Shih warns it is extremely risky. The male testicles are delicate, and a strong impact can lead to bruising, hematoma, or even long-term fertility issues. Though less common today, the urologist strongly advises against such pranks, urging young people to avoid physical jokes that could cause serious injury.
From harmless air basketball and natural adjustments to dangerous pranks, Dr. Shih’s insights help explain the physiological and habitual roots of male behaviours while highlighting the importance of respecting bodily safety and boundaries.
